Why Worried to Get Married?

 Why Worried To Get Married:

You must have come across the famous quote "Marriage is not about age; it’s about finding the right person".

So, why on the Earth should you be worried to get married?

Give it time. Wait for the right time to get the right partner. Don't jump into the decision of marriage as that would be the last thing you like to do if, God forbids, you get an uncompatible life  partner.

Marriage is important, but more important is to get a compatible life partner.

We all are witnessing the increasing cases of divorce, and that too for silly reasons. Can you guess why is it happening?... Yes, you guessed it right... It's because of the compatibility issues. And why does compatibility issue arise?... Because, things are not talked about in detail before the marriage.

Always remember, marriage is just like an institution where you would not get multiple chances if you fail to understand the basics.

Just like in any other case, in marriage also, it is utmost important to understand the basic nature of your would be life partner before jumping into the decision of getting married.

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Explaining it through an innuendo, we can take an example of your visit to a restaurant. Just imagine that You are very hungry and you visit a restaurant and ask the manager for serving you a sumptuous meal of your choice. Do you think Manager has such dishes ready to serve? Don't you think he would ask you for sometime to prepare it in the best possible manner for you which completely makes sense too?...What if you ask him to hurry?...Won't he compromise with the quality of the preparation?... Yes, he will definitely do so to save time for you.

Similarly, if you jump into the decision of marriage without understanding the partner, there are high chances that you may end up losing the sacred relationship of marriage after sometime since you haven't let it take its own course for making both of you understand each other.

I can quote an example here of my friend from #Navy whose name is also #bhaskar coincidentally.

This person married to a girl who used to live in the same city where he was posted and thinking that he was falling in love with her, this friend #bhaskar from #Navy married the girl without giving it proper time to understand each other.

It went all well and they both had a hunky Dory life in the beginning, feeling on the top of the seventh sky and grossly in love with each other. But, what happened after sometime was something that changed their life completely. As it's the culture in #Navy, one had to get posted out after every two (maximum three) years and the same happened to #Bhaskar as well. He had to get posted out to a far off location which was a non-family station and hence he couldn't take his newly wedded wife along. 

Initially both of them managed through calls and video calls, but as the destiny had decided, gradually both of them got busier in their professional lives at the cost of their personal lives and started losing track of their conversations. Furthermore, they happened to stop talking to each other after few months and finally they decided to call off the marriage since it was seemed to be heading nowhere. This was really a bad episode that took place in their respective lives, of course unintentionally, but basically because of the hastiness that they did in tying knots.

Hence, it would be my sincere advice to all of you to not to be restless, but rather take a well informed decision when it comes to marrying your life partner.

Remember the fact: It's Never Too Late!

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